Let's Fill Each Other's Buckets

I've been reading The Accidental Creative by Todd Henry, which I'm about half way through, so I can recommend that part. I came across this quote and I wanted to share it here:

But there are other people who derive their energy from filling other people's buckets. They love the thrill of seeing other people come alive, of collaborating, of giving away their ideas and subsequently the credit they deserve. They recognize that more ideas will always come, but investing in relationships and maintaining an ethic of generosity yields results we can't gain when we hold tightly and selfishly to what we think we deserve. These are the people others flock to and who invigorate an entire room with their creative energy. They thrive because they make it their mission to help others to thrive...these people are the meaning makers, and in my experience they eventually come out on top because everyone wants to work with, and for, them.

When we obsess over getting our own buckets filled, we not only find ourselves disappointed with the results, we also regularly disappoint everyone around us. Our best creative work comes from a mind-set of abundance and generosity rather than one of scarcity. When we clamor for credit and fight over resources we perceive to be scarce, it infiltrates every area of our life and work.

--From The Accidental Creative by Todd Henry

This is exactly what I hope we are and will be all about at DigitalScrapbook.com, and since it's not an easy or often natural way to live, I know I can always use a reminder.

People find DigitalScrapbook.com because we have lots of free stuff, but they stay because they find a community that has embraced this idea of filling each other's buckets rather than our own.

Good job everyone! Let's keep it up.

Somebody seems to like #pink #mydesk

Recent Comments

Jamie Mu
Jamie Mu Tue, 02/03/2015 - 16:11

Reading this has brightened my day. Thank you for sharing! Light and love

monique houlmann
monique houlmann Tue, 02/03/2015 - 09:14

can only agree totally with you ..

Poodle Dabbert
Poodle Dabbert Mon, 02/02/2015 - 22:16

Love this philosophy! My bucket is so full...gotta have someplace to put the new stuff coming in!

Barbara Mehew Rodd
Barbara Mehew Rodd Mon, 02/02/2015 - 09:33

Wow ! Powerful stuff. Thanks for sharing x

Rose Snelling
Rose Snelling Mon, 02/02/2015 - 09:10

That is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing it.

Daniela Moraes
Daniela Moraes Mon, 02/02/2015 - 05:57

Yes, that's exactly what I feel too, that's so true regarding our community here, thanks for sharing and thank you for creating this little comfy and oh so welcoming corner on the vast Internet *heart*

Melo Vrijhof
Melo Vrijhof Sun, 02/01/2015 - 15:23

Wow, sounds like Todd read your manifesto before he wrote his book! You are so right, people get to know us through the free stuff, but they soon realize there is so much more here. Knowledge, love, creativity.

Carole Nordyke
Carole Nordyke Sun, 02/01/2015 - 12:01

Loved this, Marissa and so much truth in it. Thank you for sharing and reminding us. Hugs!

Tammy Morgan
Tammy Morgan Sun, 02/01/2015 - 10:01

I cannot express in words how much I LOVE this!!! Thank you for sharing!

Cynthia Arnett
Cynthia Arnett Sun, 02/01/2015 - 05:27

Love your thoughts Marisa. Thank you for sharing. I just love this site, the people, the thoughts and all the tallent freely shared.

Tina Shaw
Tina Shaw Sat, 01/31/2015 - 14:27

So true, Marisa!

France Stewart
France Stewart Sat, 01/31/2015 - 04:22

What can I say, I love the quote and I love DigitalScrapbook.com, and you have certainly filled my bucket, I hope I fill other people's buckets a bit every day!!!

Vicki Iseminger
Vicki Iseminger Sat, 01/31/2015 - 04:20

What a great quote. Thanks for sharing!

Vanessa Serra
Vanessa Serra Sat, 01/31/2015 - 03:52

I love that you shared with us. I have found that you can never out give even yourself. It seems the more you give the more you have to give. Much of what we have to give doesn't have to cost money...it can just be a smile. I hope to become an asset to this wonderful community.

Amber Murmer
Amber Murmer Fri, 01/30/2015 - 15:16

This is why I make it a goal to leave love on 4 layouts every time I visit...that's my way of giving back to the community I love to be a part of.

Violet Irisovna
Violet Irisovna Fri, 01/30/2015 - 15:14

What a perfect expression of the DigitalScrapbook.com ethos. A good reminder, too - like you said, it's so much more automatic (in this time, in this culture) to operate from scarcity than from a sense of open-handed abundance. I love the metaphor of filling each others' buckets!

Paddy Wolf
Paddy Wolf Fri, 01/30/2015 - 12:49

...it's stuff like this that makes me come back to PS every day... somehow this place always makes me feel good... thank you!

Lórien Rezende
Lórien Rezende Fri, 01/30/2015 - 12:05

I love this quote, thanks for sharing! *heart*

Betsy Bush
Betsy Bush Fri, 01/30/2015 - 11:14

What a beautiful sentiment, Marisa. Thanks for sharing. A wonderful concept to always keep in mind!